How To Be Happy

Do you know what makes you happy? Is it money? Is it Your spouse? Is it your girlfriend/boyfriend? Is it your best friend? Who is it or are all these choices all wrong?

Did you say money? Most people do.Between wealth and being without funds being wealthy is in first place. When you have money you can relieve some of the stress of your everyday existence. It is very comfortable to know you can meet your house payments, car payments, food, electric, heat and phone.

Living in a large house can be very gratifying and driving a nice car that does not break down every other day is very satisfying. If you have ever had the experience of your vehicle conking out late at night on a lonely you know what I mean. You come home to relieve the pressure of the day and to relax. That feels very rewarding.

Is the secret your spouse? Are you all giddy every time you are around them? I would like to thin so, but I doubt it. The divorce rate is so high many couples do not stay together very long. Besides most women work today and they get a chance to see the world from another angle. Could it be boyfriend/girlfriend? They change faster than your underwear. Best friends move very often and we forget each other.

What is the answer? None of the above. There is only one person who can help you be happy and he is inside of you. Do not get me wrong there are some good feelings in having spouse, cars, homes, etc, but they are usually temporary. When you get up in the early dawn look in the mirror and say "I intend to be happy today. I will handle all challenges that come my way and be happy in spite of them. My happiness is a choice that I make."

You have to take complete responsibility for whatever comes your way in life. I know of no other way that takes the blame game out of your life. The blame game does not solve any of your problems. From this moment on take responsibility for your own happiness.

Committed to your success,

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